The eldest daughter is 21 years old, and now I am pregnant unexpectedly. Can I raise my second child at 44 years old?

I am 44 years old this year, and I have never dreamed that I had a second child. However, when I did n’t expect the unit to routine inspection, the doctor told me the news of pregnancy. Suddenly, my mood was like a thunderstorm.Essence

In the summer of 1998, my husband and I got married. Soon after the marriage, I became pregnant. After giving birth to my daughter, I never thought about the second child.The second child, I did not have a high income with my husband, and the economic foundation was insufficient. I never thought about the second child.

My daughter is 21 years old and is still in college.Over the years, my husband and I have for the maintenance of the elderly for the elderly. They also have to go to school at the beginning of the year. I also changed a new house at the beginning of the year. Now I still have to pay back a mortgage every month. The economy is still closely open.

When I went home, I told my in -laws and husbands to tell the results of the inspection, and the suggestions given were different.

The in -laws said that they wanted to make us have a second child. A child felt very lonely, and there was a response.The next day, I brought two old hens in my hometown, saying that I would raise my body.

My husband told me: "Our ability now, and it seems to be struggling to support a child. If we regenerate one, we will not be able to eat it. Raising one child is piled up by money.Contracery measures! "

However, my husband’s opinion advised me to give up this child because of the lack of economy, and my age was indeed older. For energy considerations, I should not have this second child.

Moreover, the in -laws are almost 70, and I do n’t have much energy to help us take care of the second child. If I resign and bring my children at home, my husband ’s salary is not enough to maintain family spending.Think of the life of other people’s homes so relaxed. A second -born family is full of expectations, but when it comes to your own home, it is difficult.

I don’t know what choices I should do. These days, I have struggling to do what I should do during the past few days. On the one hand, I ’m the expectation of my in -laws and the pressure of real life. Please help me. What should I do?What about it?

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